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If you are struggling with women and have decided to do something about it, great. The fact that you are reading this article means you’ve come to the right place. You should definitely check out ‘How to attract girls’ if you are new to learning how to get a girl.
Already on the journey
However if you have already started, what can be a very long journey, there is something that you should definitely take on board…
As with learning any new skill, it can take time and patience. Sometimes when you start learning something new it can take time for it to feel as though it’s sinking in. It can be frustrating at first.
I remember when I first started to learn how to meet women. The first time I went out and spoke to some girls I was not only petrified but I also didn’t have a clue as what to say or do. I felt like I would never be able to do it.
After learning new techniques and principles, I got to the stage where I could meet and attract women. I could also talk to them at places like work where normally I would shy away. It took time and, most importantly, practice but I got there in the end. If you want to know more about my development and stuff like when I lost my virginity (put it this way – I was older than most) then check out ‘Who is Preston Blain?‘.
The same thing happened when I started to learn how to ride a motorbike earlier this year. I felt nervous, clueless (even though I had ridden off-road bikes before) and generally worried about the whole ‘taking the test’ thing.
Now I have passed my test and ridden for a while I am now so much more comfortable with riding my bike. I have ridden on bike trips and I have taken passengers on the back. The sort of things that seem a long way away when you first start to learn. However, once you have been learning a new skill for a while and putting it into action for a period of time, it starts to become more and more like second nature. You feel more and more comfortable doing said thing. Just like I have with the examples I have given.
What should you take from all this?
When you first start learning to meet and attract women it’s like everything else we learn to do. It might take time and effort but it’s definitely going to come.
Just imagine when you have learned any other skills in the past. Nothing ever comes easy. As long as you work hard and keep it up you seriously can achieve great things.
You also need to be aware that having the confidence to attempt new things is very important. If I had not worked on being confident in myself then I would never have gone out in the first place to meet women. Nor would I have gotten on a motorbike. Therefore you should definitely check out confidence with women. If you can build your confidence up first then it makes it easier to go out and start learning new skills. Once you have the confidence to go out and learn new skills then boom the world is your oyster.
If you are learning a new skill such as meeting women then remember that it takes time and effort. The more you put in the more you get out.
If things were easy from the start then life would be very boring. So embrace the challenge and work hard until it starts becoming easier. It’s definitely worth the effort.